Virta
is only powerful when she has a group of people who support her and are
available when needed. When Virta moves to the United States for the first
time, she is desperately lonely and she “miss[es] her father and her friends,
[her] neighbors” (Díaz, This is How you Lose Her, 142). Lacking her
support system, she “let[s] [the] father roll over her” (Díaz 142). She is weak
in his presence and acquiesces to his will. She finds it impossible to be
strong when she is facing adversity alone. The benefits of a support system are
exemplified when Virta is faced with Rafa’s illness and his subsequent
impulsive behavior. The Horsefaces are a
constant presence throughout the story and Mami’s strength is shown in her
ability to kick out Rafa despite her love for him (Díaz 110). Rafa “looked
shitsmacked” (Díaz 110) when he realized that his mother was not going to give
in. She is able to be powerful and
mighty when she has people backing her up and encouraging her. Even though her past habit was to comply with
Rafa’s wants, she is brave and sticks to her beliefs.
In
addition to relying on friends and family, powerful women are also courageous
and independent. After Papi leaves, Mami takes responsibility and works “ten-,
twelve-hour shifts for almost no money at all” (Díaz, Drown, 71). She
supports herself financially without a husband. Her ability to recover from the
loss and provide for her family is indicative of her inner strength. Other
women in the books may have resorted to finding another man as soon as possible
or may have succumbed to a downward spiral. Even though “men were drawn to her”
(Diaz 73), she chooses to remain alone and be the sole provider for her family.
Sexuality
is used as a tool by many women in the stories in order to get what they want.
It does not take long to realize that with the appearance of her new body “she
finally had power” (Díaz, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, 94). She sees the future that is now possible with her
femininity and took advantage. Especially during the Era of Trujillo, women
were powerless and were treated as objects by men. Beli uses what was saw as a burden by
relatives (Díaz 94), as a
superpower that would lead her to freedom.
She is powerful, not because she is attractive, but because she
understands how to use her sexuality to her advantage. She maintains control
over herself and does not let others tell her what to do.
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